Most Gracious Heavenly Father,
We thank You for our mothers to whom You have entrusted the care of every precious human life from its very beginning in the womb.
You have given to woman the capacity of participating with You in the creation of new life. Grant that every woman may come to understand the full meaning of that blessing, which gives her an unlimited capacity for selfless love for every child she may be privileged to bear, and for all Your children.
Watch over every mother who is with child, strengthen her faith in Your fatherly care and love for her and for her unborn baby. Give her courage in times of fear or pain, understanding in times of uncertainty and doubt, and hope in times of trouble. Grant her joy in the birth of her child.
To mothers You have given the great privilege and responsibility of being a child's first teacher and spiritual guide. Grant that all mothers may worthily foster the faith of their children, following the example of Mary, Elizabeth, and other holy women who follow Christ. Help mothers to grow daily in knowledge and understanding of Your Son, Our Lord Jesus Christ, and grant them the wisdom to impart this knowledge faithfully to their children, and to all who depend upon them.
Assist all "spiritual mothers", those who, though they may have no children of their own, nevertheless selflessly care for the children of others -- of every age and state in life. Grant that they may know the joy of fulfilling this motherly calling of women, whether in teaching, nursing, religious life, or in other work which recognizes and fosters the true dignity of every human being created in Your image and likeness.
We beseech You to send Your Holy Spirit, the Comforter, to all mothers who sorrow for children that have died, are ill or estranged from their families, or who are in trouble or danger of any kind. Help grieving mothers to rely on Your tender mercy and fatherly love for all your children.
We ask your blessing on all those to whom You have entrusted motherhood. May Your Holy Spirit constantly inspire and strengthen them. May they ever follow the example of Mary, mother of Our Lord, and imitate her fidelity, her humility, and her self-giving love. May all mothers receive Your Grace abundantly in this earthly life, and may they look forward to eternal joy in Your presence in the life to come.
We ask this through our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, one God, world without end.
AMEN.
LET US GIVE OUR BELOVED MOM A SPECIAL MOTHER'S DAY..
HOW??
Just check on the list below..maybe you can practice it for your mom..
1.Spending Time Together
The best Mothers Day gift you can give your mother is to spend quality time with her. Your mother is specially going to appreciate the idea if she is staying along away from her kids. Take the Mother's Day as the opportunity do discuss yours and hers life. Share secrets, tell her how much you miss her and care for her. You must always thank your mother for all she has done for you in bringing you up.
2.Making a Meal
Mom's provide us with tasty food with lot of love. This is appreciated by us but this must not be taken for granted. Mothers too get tired and bored working in kitchen all throughout the year. Take her responsibilities for a day and make a meal for her. Surprise her with a delicious Mothers day special breakfast. A bed tea presented in a nice tray with a bunch of flowers will definitely cheer her up. Besides, a sumptuous lunch or a dinner prepared with love by kids will be a nice Mothers Day gift idea.
3.Cleaning the House
There are endless tasks that Moms perform day in and day out without even making us understand the enormity of the jobs she perform. But she is not a super human being. She too needs rest and a helping hand. Take up the job of cleaning the house, dishes, the car, pet or the laundry for a day. This gesture of yours will be appreciated as a perfect Mother's Day gift idea by an Mother.
4.Gift Certificates
You know your Mom is the greatest in the world. Then why don't you say it in writing? This Mothers Day gift her a decorated certificate saying how much she is appreciated and that she is the best Mom in the world. You may also like to frame the certificate your self with a little imagination and creativity. This will receive the best possible place- in your Mother's heart!
5.Mom's day out from the Kitchen
Most Mom's don't need flowers, cakes or jewelry what they desperately need is a day's break from the kitchen so that they may relax a little and spend a little time on themselves. This Mother's day make it a truly your mother's day by giving her a day's rest from the kitchen. If you are unable to take the charge of the kitchen yourself, get the food ordered or hire a maid to do the cooking. She will give you lot of blessings and look forward to the coming Mother's Day with lot of enthusiasm.
6.Plan a Family Picnic
A day of complete rest and full of fun may be your gift ideas on Mother's Day. Figure out her idea of an ideal picnic spot. Does she wish to relax near a river, or does she loves adventure, then accordingly select a suitable destination. Gather the necessary items for the picnic and save your mother from the trouble. Make her relax and enjoy a memorable Mothers Day.
7.A Collage or Handicrafts
If you are creative and you love your Mom, you can unleash your talent and touch your mother's heart with an artistic touch. A family pictures collage is good idea for a Mothers Day gift. You may also try your hand at decorating a pot, a vase or a jewelry box for her. This will be nice Mothers Day gift with a lot of sentimental value.
There are a lot of things money can't buy. Love and time for instance. On a very special occasion such as a Mothers Day, it would be a nice idea to gift your mom exactly these. Mom's are not looking for expensive or flashy things from their children. What a mother needs most is a relaxed atmosphere in the company of her most priced possession - her children and lot of love, warmth and affection. The list above are some unique, special and priceless Mothers Day gift ideas for a wonderful Mother's Day.Practice them all.Show your love to your mom. It will be so meaningful for them.Believe me!!It works...;))
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Laparoscopic Operations-4th May 2009
Klu dengar nama pembedahan ni org akan cakap..alah sikit ja tu..tapi actually,risiko nya tda la sesikit yg dorg cakap tu..ini la operation yg pertama dalam hidup saya.saya begitu takut untuk memikirkannya..sampaikan sya tda sedar masa yang berlalu telah membawa saya ke hari operation tu..
3rd May - saya masuk hospital jam 11 lebih..masuk2 ja memang tda bleh da keluar wad..family saya yg datang,balik terus p rumah utk mempersiapkan segala2nya..bila kena tgal tu,mcm2 perasaan ada..nasib baikla jg ada kakak penghuni di hospital tu yg peramah..tda la terasa asing sgat..dan kali pertama sya pakai baju hospital,saya rasa macam tidak percaya..baru ja sekejap tdi sya pakai jeans dan t-shirt kegemaran sya..skrg sdh pakai uniform plak..lepas tu,kena timbang berat plak..sya terkejut jg la bila tengok berat sya..21hb April sya timbang berat 64kg..tpi hari ni da tgal 60kg..sya tda tau apa yg sya mkn masa tu..tapi sya akui,tunggu hri operation ni rasa mcm tunggu hari mau mati..mungkin itula yg menyebabkan berat sya turun mendadak..lepas timbang,mau cucuk jarum masuk air dan ambik darah plak..bab ni lah yang paling sya tda suka..biasanya klu ambik darah,mesti lebih dari sekali jg kena cucuk sebab urat tda nampak..tapi hari ni sya memang sengsara betul..sudahla tgal sorg di hospitl..family semua blik..kena jarum lgi smpi 7 kali baru dapat ambik darah dan jarum masuk air..tgn sya sdh jdi mcm tgn penagih dadah yg pro..di mana2 sja ada kesan jarum..nurse smpi 3 org bganti2 cuba nasib mau cucuk jarum supaya dapat masuk air dan ambik darah..sya rasa teruk sgat time tu..mau nangis da tapi control jg..tpi lpas ja selesai semua tu,memang nangis jg la..dan saat itu apa yg ada di fikiran sya ialah..sihat mcmana pun mesti sakit jg bila sdh masuk wad..sabar ja la..cuma org yg sakit sja yg tau apa rasanya..nasib jg tda lama lepas tu kena kasi masuk di wad first class..ada privacy skit la jg..tpi boring la plak..sebab sorg..apa bleh bt la..tidur ja dulu..petang baru dorg dtg..mlm nya sya kena suruh sign surat kebenaran bius oleh dr bius..takut jg la bila baca risiko2 dan kemungkinan2 yg bleh berlaku bila kena bius..tapi apa bleh buat..tawakal ja la..pukul 11 kena masuk air..aduii pya la sakit..pergerakan pun terus terbatas..nasib baik la ada mumy sya yg jaga..nda jg terasa sgat skitnya..jam 12 mlm start puasa..tertidur la sya dalam debaran dan kesakitan..ehehehehe..
4th May - Bangun awal pagi lagi kena cek tekanan darah..lepas mandi dr pakar dtg lawat dan bagi maklum tentang masa pembedahan..jam 10.30 ooo..rasa mcm takut mau mati sudah..but finally,the time is coming..first time pki baju pbedahan..adadahhh..pya malu..kan kena buka semua pakaian dan pakai jubah putih yg cuma kena ikat di belakang tu..aduiii..pastu kena naik kerusi plak utk naik p baring di katil..lucu plak terasa saat tu..tapi berdebar lagi kuat la tu hati jg..hahahaha..dan bila nurse da bawa turun p tgkt 1 pki lif,sya da rasa macam seram sejuk..ntah la mcmana mau digambarkan dengan kata2 perasaan sya time tu..apa yg sya tau,sya sudah pun berada di bilik pembedahan..sebelum sya masuk sya tengok jg la puas2 muka suami dan ibu bapa sya puas2..takut lepas ni tda bleh tengok da..ehehehe..semasa dlm OT room,sya kena suruh relaks dulu sebab mau tunggu lgi 1 patient siap kena bedah..masa tu la sya ambil utk berdoa kepada TUHAN agar sya dikuatkan..dan syukur jg la..belum lg sya kena bius,sya rasa mengantuk betul..lepas tu sya tda tau sdh apa yg terjadi..yg samar2 sja dlm ingatan sya,tu nurse panggil nama sya dan suruh tarik nafas dlm2..lepas tu ada sorg lg kasi masuk ubt d tgn sya..rasa sakit jg skit la..sempat lg tu nurse ckp..oppss!sori..sakit sikit ya..lepas tu sya tda nampak apa2 da..sedar ja sya dengar org bersembang..dan masa tu penglihatan sya masih kabur..cuma sya masih bleh nmpk la sya di mana masa tu..msih dlm OT room..sya cuba mau tya pembedahan sdh selesai ka belum..tpi suara tda mau keluar..nasib la tu nurse ckp..janeffer,pembedahan sdh selesai..dan masa tu baru sya tau kenapa abdomen sya rsa sakit betul..tpi syukur la sya selamat..time kena bwa keluar dri OT room sya rasa mcm mau ngis nmpk family sya yg tgu d luar..smpi d wad,segalnya masih samar2 pada penglihatan sya..tapi satu perkara yg sya tda bleh lupa dan akan sya ingat smpi bila2..sya masuk sja di wad..mumy sya terus cium dahi sya sambil panggil nama sya..masa tu lah sya terasa betul kasih sayang seorang ibu yg sgat sya rindukan sejak sya disini..dlm mamai2 sya tu,sya masih mau bgtau family sya bahawa sya sdh ok..tpi kasian dorg tda fhm apa yg sya ckp..hahaha..pastu sya tertidur lg smpi la sya sedar pada petang tu jg..
Bila dikenangkan balik,sya tau sya tda akan boleh menghadapi semua tu klu teda sokongan dari keluarga sya dan restu dari TUHAN sendiri..sya ni hambaNya yg lemah dan memang tda punya kekuatan..tapi Dia meminjamkan kekuatanNya pada sya agar sya boleh menghadapi saat2 itu..Terima Kasih Tuhan..dan terima kasih jg utk ahli keluarga iaitu suami,ibu,bapa dan kedua2 mertua yg sgup datang memberikan semangat dan sokongan pada sya..juga buat adik2,kawan2 dan sahabat2 yg begitu prihatin akan keadaan sya..semoga TUHAN akan membalas segala kebaikan kalian..AMEN..
3rd May - saya masuk hospital jam 11 lebih..masuk2 ja memang tda bleh da keluar wad..family saya yg datang,balik terus p rumah utk mempersiapkan segala2nya..bila kena tgal tu,mcm2 perasaan ada..nasib baikla jg ada kakak penghuni di hospital tu yg peramah..tda la terasa asing sgat..dan kali pertama sya pakai baju hospital,saya rasa macam tidak percaya..baru ja sekejap tdi sya pakai jeans dan t-shirt kegemaran sya..skrg sdh pakai uniform plak..lepas tu,kena timbang berat plak..sya terkejut jg la bila tengok berat sya..21hb April sya timbang berat 64kg..tpi hari ni da tgal 60kg..sya tda tau apa yg sya mkn masa tu..tapi sya akui,tunggu hri operation ni rasa mcm tunggu hari mau mati..mungkin itula yg menyebabkan berat sya turun mendadak..lepas timbang,mau cucuk jarum masuk air dan ambik darah plak..bab ni lah yang paling sya tda suka..biasanya klu ambik darah,mesti lebih dari sekali jg kena cucuk sebab urat tda nampak..tapi hari ni sya memang sengsara betul..sudahla tgal sorg di hospitl..family semua blik..kena jarum lgi smpi 7 kali baru dapat ambik darah dan jarum masuk air..tgn sya sdh jdi mcm tgn penagih dadah yg pro..di mana2 sja ada kesan jarum..nurse smpi 3 org bganti2 cuba nasib mau cucuk jarum supaya dapat masuk air dan ambik darah..sya rasa teruk sgat time tu..mau nangis da tapi control jg..tpi lpas ja selesai semua tu,memang nangis jg la..dan saat itu apa yg ada di fikiran sya ialah..sihat mcmana pun mesti sakit jg bila sdh masuk wad..sabar ja la..cuma org yg sakit sja yg tau apa rasanya..nasib jg tda lama lepas tu kena kasi masuk di wad first class..ada privacy skit la jg..tpi boring la plak..sebab sorg..apa bleh bt la..tidur ja dulu..petang baru dorg dtg..mlm nya sya kena suruh sign surat kebenaran bius oleh dr bius..takut jg la bila baca risiko2 dan kemungkinan2 yg bleh berlaku bila kena bius..tapi apa bleh buat..tawakal ja la..pukul 11 kena masuk air..aduii pya la sakit..pergerakan pun terus terbatas..nasib baik la ada mumy sya yg jaga..nda jg terasa sgat skitnya..jam 12 mlm start puasa..tertidur la sya dalam debaran dan kesakitan..ehehehehe..
4th May - Bangun awal pagi lagi kena cek tekanan darah..lepas mandi dr pakar dtg lawat dan bagi maklum tentang masa pembedahan..jam 10.30 ooo..rasa mcm takut mau mati sudah..but finally,the time is coming..first time pki baju pbedahan..adadahhh..pya malu..kan kena buka semua pakaian dan pakai jubah putih yg cuma kena ikat di belakang tu..aduiii..pastu kena naik kerusi plak utk naik p baring di katil..lucu plak terasa saat tu..tapi berdebar lagi kuat la tu hati jg..hahahaha..dan bila nurse da bawa turun p tgkt 1 pki lif,sya da rasa macam seram sejuk..ntah la mcmana mau digambarkan dengan kata2 perasaan sya time tu..apa yg sya tau,sya sudah pun berada di bilik pembedahan..sebelum sya masuk sya tengok jg la puas2 muka suami dan ibu bapa sya puas2..takut lepas ni tda bleh tengok da..ehehehe..semasa dlm OT room,sya kena suruh relaks dulu sebab mau tunggu lgi 1 patient siap kena bedah..masa tu la sya ambil utk berdoa kepada TUHAN agar sya dikuatkan..dan syukur jg la..belum lg sya kena bius,sya rasa mengantuk betul..lepas tu sya tda tau sdh apa yg terjadi..yg samar2 sja dlm ingatan sya,tu nurse panggil nama sya dan suruh tarik nafas dlm2..lepas tu ada sorg lg kasi masuk ubt d tgn sya..rasa sakit jg skit la..sempat lg tu nurse ckp..oppss!sori..sakit sikit ya..lepas tu sya tda nampak apa2 da..sedar ja sya dengar org bersembang..dan masa tu penglihatan sya masih kabur..cuma sya masih bleh nmpk la sya di mana masa tu..msih dlm OT room..sya cuba mau tya pembedahan sdh selesai ka belum..tpi suara tda mau keluar..nasib la tu nurse ckp..janeffer,pembedahan sdh selesai..dan masa tu baru sya tau kenapa abdomen sya rsa sakit betul..tpi syukur la sya selamat..time kena bwa keluar dri OT room sya rasa mcm mau ngis nmpk family sya yg tgu d luar..smpi d wad,segalnya masih samar2 pada penglihatan sya..tapi satu perkara yg sya tda bleh lupa dan akan sya ingat smpi bila2..sya masuk sja di wad..mumy sya terus cium dahi sya sambil panggil nama sya..masa tu lah sya terasa betul kasih sayang seorang ibu yg sgat sya rindukan sejak sya disini..dlm mamai2 sya tu,sya masih mau bgtau family sya bahawa sya sdh ok..tpi kasian dorg tda fhm apa yg sya ckp..hahaha..pastu sya tertidur lg smpi la sya sedar pada petang tu jg..
Bila dikenangkan balik,sya tau sya tda akan boleh menghadapi semua tu klu teda sokongan dari keluarga sya dan restu dari TUHAN sendiri..sya ni hambaNya yg lemah dan memang tda punya kekuatan..tapi Dia meminjamkan kekuatanNya pada sya agar sya boleh menghadapi saat2 itu..Terima Kasih Tuhan..dan terima kasih jg utk ahli keluarga iaitu suami,ibu,bapa dan kedua2 mertua yg sgup datang memberikan semangat dan sokongan pada sya..juga buat adik2,kawan2 dan sahabat2 yg begitu prihatin akan keadaan sya..semoga TUHAN akan membalas segala kebaikan kalian..AMEN..
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